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Why Talking About Gambling Matters

G’day, and welcome! If you’re new to the world of online gambling or just starting to think about how it impacts your family here in Aotearoa, you’re in the right place. Talking about gambling, especially with your kids or other family members, might feel a bit tricky at first. But trust me, it’s a super important conversation to have. In New Zealand, gambling is part of our culture, from the TAB to lotto tickets, and online casinos are becoming increasingly popular. Understanding how to approach these conversations can help protect your whānau and ensure everyone is informed and responsible. Knowing how to play safely is a great starting point.

This article is designed to give you some friendly advice on how to start these conversations, what to talk about, and how to create a supportive environment where everyone feels comfortable sharing their thoughts and concerns. It’s all about open communication and making sure everyone in your family understands the potential risks and how to enjoy gambling responsibly, if they choose to participate at all.

Getting Started: Tips for Open Communication

So, where do you begin? Starting a conversation about gambling doesn’t have to be a big, formal event. It can be as simple as bringing it up casually during a family dinner or while you’re watching TV. Here are some helpful tips to get the ball rolling:

• Choose the Right Time and Place: Pick a time when everyone is relaxed and not rushed. A quiet evening at home, perhaps after dinner, is a good option. Avoid bringing it up when someone is already stressed or preoccupied.
• Be Approachable: Show that you’re open to listening. Use phrases like, “I’d love to hear your thoughts on…” or “What do you think about…?” This encourages others to share their perspectives.
• Listen Actively: Pay attention to what others are saying, both verbally and non-verbally. Show that you’re engaged by nodding, making eye contact, and asking clarifying questions.
• Share Your Own Thoughts: Be honest about your own experiences and feelings about gambling. This can help create a sense of trust and encourage others to open up.
• Keep it Positive: Frame the conversation in a way that focuses on responsible behaviour and making informed choices, rather than just focusing on the negative aspects.

What to Talk About: Key Conversation Starters

Once you’ve set the stage, what exactly should you talk about? Here are some key topics to cover:

Understanding Gambling

Start by explaining what gambling is. This includes different forms of gambling, like lotto, scratch cards, sports betting, and online casinos. Explain the basic principles: the chance of winning, the role of luck, and the fact that the house (the casino or betting platform) always has an advantage in the long run.

The Risks Involved

It’s crucial to discuss the potential risks of gambling. This includes:

• Financial Risks: Talk about the possibility of losing money and the importance of setting a budget. Explain that gambling should be seen as a form of entertainment, not a way to make money.
• Addiction: Discuss the potential for gambling addiction and the signs to watch out for, such as chasing losses, gambling more than intended, and neglecting responsibilities.
• Mental Health: Gambling can sometimes lead to stress, anxiety, and depression. Make sure your family knows that it’s okay to seek help if they’re struggling.

Responsible Gambling

Focus on promoting responsible gambling habits. This includes:

• Setting a Budget: Determine how much money is okay to spend on gambling and stick to it.
• Time Limits: Set time limits for gambling activities.
• Knowing the Odds: Understand that the odds are always in favour of the house.
• Avoiding Chasing Losses: Never try to win back money you’ve lost by gambling more.
• Taking Breaks: It’s important to take regular breaks from gambling.
• Seeking Help: Know where to go if you or someone you know needs help (see resources below).

Online Gambling Specifics

Online gambling presents unique challenges. Discuss:

• Age Verification: Make sure everyone understands the importance of age verification and the legal gambling age in New Zealand (usually 18).
• Privacy and Security: Talk about the importance of protecting personal information and using secure websites.
• Deposit Limits: Many online casinos offer deposit limits. Encourage your family to use these tools to manage their spending.
• Self-Exclusion: Explain the option of self-exclusion, which allows individuals to block themselves from accessing gambling websites.

Dealing with Different Age Groups

How you approach these conversations will vary depending on the age of the people you’re talking to:

Young Children

With young children, the focus should be on the concept of money, chance, and the difference between games of skill and games of chance. Keep it simple and age-appropriate. Avoid using gambling as a reward or a way to teach about money.

Teenagers

Teenagers are at a higher risk of developing gambling problems. Talk to them about the risks, peer pressure, and the importance of making informed choices. Encourage them to talk to you if they are struggling or if they see their friends gambling. Emphasize the legal age for gambling.

Adults

With adults, the conversation should be more open and collaborative. Discuss your own experiences and concerns, and encourage them to share theirs. If you’re worried about an adult family member’s gambling habits, approach the conversation with empathy and offer support.

Resources and Support in Aotearoa

It’s important to know where to find help if you or someone you know needs it. Here are some valuable resources in New Zealand:

• Problem Gambling Foundation: Offers free counselling, support, and education.
• Gambling Helpline: A free, confidential phone and online service that provides support and information. (0800 654 655)
• Department of Internal Affairs (DIA): Regulates gambling in New Zealand and provides information about responsible gambling.
• Your GP: Can provide referrals to mental health services and other support.

Conclusion: Building a Gambling-Aware Whānau

Having open and honest conversations about gambling is a crucial step in creating a safe and informed environment for your family. By following these tips and resources, you can equip your whānau with the knowledge and tools they need to make responsible choices. Remember, it’s an ongoing conversation, not a one-time event. Keep the lines of communication open, be supportive, and don’t hesitate to seek help if you need it. By working together, you can help build a gambling-aware whānau here in Aotearoa, where everyone can enjoy life and make informed decisions.

Mā te wā (Until next time)!

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